Pray and ask the Lord to guide you through this time.If you are in high school or college you have plenty of time, so don’t rush it!I know it might be hurtful, but don’t put yourself through the torture!Now girls do love to be pursued, but the point is don’t go overboard if she’s not interested.I was inspired by a dinner conversation I had with some of the girls.We exchanged stories, boy stories to be exact, about different experiences we had.If you send 2-4 texts without a response back (this goes for girls too) than there probably isn’t an interest there.Now there are exceptions to the rule, but for the most part this is the case.
There is quite a bit of focus on the girls in this area, but not so much on the boys. My boys are sensitive, and if they're dating you, the most certainly like you. Relationships should never be conditional, so don't start this BS with my boy. Don't plan on getting married or having children until my son is 30. Speaking from experience, you will meet a countless number of young men in your lifetime.
Also keep in mind that all girls are different, very different, but for the most part these are rules you can follow for the average girl.
So here they are, the to do’s and what not to do’s in getting a date with a girl! “God Told Me To Date You” What Not To Do: Don’t pull the “God told me to date you” card. First, it puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on a girl and on a relationship. Read the Signs When You Ask For Her Number What Not To Do: You don’t want to be the guy that can’t read the signs.
So something you wouldn’t want to do is to text her immediately and constantly.
If you don’t get the hints up front, a girl is eventually going to have to be more blunt which will hurt worse.
You will find someone that is, and she will be the one you want to pursue and spend your time with! Mentioning Marriage the First Time You Meet Someone What Not To Do: Don’t talk about how bad you want a wife the first time you meet a girl. The only way to know perfect timing is through prayer.