You’ve gone over the laundry list of things you could have done differently over the years. Should you lose your virginity with a pro just to get it over with? Apart from the fact that sex can create babies, in 99% of cases, it’s just a fun thing that people do when they’re attracted to each other. I rarely plug my own products on here, but you should begin with Finding the One Online, my online dating audio series.
You may have valid excuses in how you were raised, but it really doesn’t matter if you were raised old-fashioned. By not carrying yourself with confidence, not asking out more women, not making the first move, not pushing to go further, and not seeing yourself as a sexual being, you’ve projected yourself to women as safe and asexual as well. It’s much easier and more accessible (for nice guys) than going to pubs to hit on hot 27-year-olds. And when it’s time for you to have sex, you’ll be as ready as any man ever was.
As of recently, I try to find women between 25 and 42 years old.
I’ve read a lot about what you’ve said about “Ineffective versus Effective” and “What I want in a woman versus what she wants about me”, and I guess I’m still a bit confused.
Sure, I know your first pet’s name and that she was run over by the neighbor, who then lied about it, but I don’t know your goals. These are really important factors that women want to know before making you their boyfriend.
It’s perfectly fine to have never had a girlfriend. Confidence is huge when it comes to women finding someone attractive.
Just don’t go around telling cute girls this, unless you’re purposely trying to evade their interest. And by telling me that you’ve never had a girlfriend and just “can’t figure out why,” I can tell right away that you’ve already lost confidence in your ability to get one, and that’s just not attractive. [Read: 9 subtle differences between a confident and arrogant man] #3 You give away too much information.
Instead of skipping steps and worrying about getting naked with someone, you just need the experience of being around women, learning to act on your attraction, and demystifying this sex thing that you’ve built up in your mind.
There are a ton of guys out there who have never had a girlfriend.
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