Naked Sandwich This is cheating a bit, because it involves nudity, and I think first base implies clothes on, but one way we heated things up without any fluid exchange was the Naked Sandwich.
This is where you get naked, in bed, and just lie with each other, petting but no more.
I was giving my then-GF a backrub, and every time I moved down past her shoulder blades she would moan.
Turned out, without even noticing it, one of my fingers was brushing the side of her breast, giving her the right kind of chills.
*And a special note to you, spammers; we officially declare you a major DON' T.
How far is too far when you are out on a first date with your potential plus one?
I was standing over the counter, engaged in some kind of food prep (for some reason I did not have a shirt on), and all of a sudden I felt these hands on my neck.
My then-girlfriend proceeded to give me the most involved, sensuous back and neck massage; it left me incapacitated.3.
Standing Surprises One of my favorite romantic memories, and I won't betray the perpetrator, happened in my kitchen, and it wasn't even close to first base.
Could you tell me what the bases are for girls and guys? While there's no "official" definition of what the bases represent, there seems to be a general understanding of each base: Remember, Wondering, these can vary among different people, so don't be embarrassed to ask your friends exactly what they mean when they talk about the different bases — you may find that you aren't the only one who needs some clarification on both the bases and the definition of sex.
It's great that you want to be informed and asking is the best way to find out.
This led to some interesting discussions about what can happen on your way to first base:__1.
Kissing Everywhere But(t) __This can include the butt.
Asking for consent before, during, and after any sexual activity can help ensure you've expressed what you want, you know what your partner wants, and that consent has been given.