A spontaneous opinion opener comes from reacting to something your friend supposedly said and simply asking whoever is nearest—who just happen to be a pair of hot chicks! Rooting the opener means that you tell them the reason you’re asking, so that they know why they’re spending their time giving you their advice.
All of the examples below include roots, but remember that you can always go the spontaneous route if the situation calls for it. Here’s how you might deliver this one: “You look like you can help me with something.
My friend is coming in an hour and he needs my advice.
He’s known his girlfriend for three months and he’s going to ask her to marry him tomorrow.
That opener leads nicely into conversation on dating and relationships.
Her objection is projected onto the other guy, so you’ve got less chance of getting rejected yourself.
What kind of present should I get for my friend’s girlfriend? My best friend had to rush away on business—he’s got the biggest business deal of his life going—and he’s asked me a massive favor.You will receive super-fast results and women will think you’re incredible because of your boldness.With a direct opener, if she doesn’t respond negatively, take the direct route and escalate quickly.You have to believe in what you say and put yourself on the line. If there’s even a hint of weakness and the girl picks up on it, the opener will fall flat.When you have confidence from your success with other openers, or if you’re confident because you can tell the girl is attracted to you, bring out the direct opener and it’ll be fantastic.They will likely be in conversation already, or at least thinking about something with a conversation going on inside their head. Think about how you do this in your own life; be aware of your interaction next time you join a group.