A girl I used to sleep with is now dating a guy who refuses to make their relationship official, and she is constantly complaining to me about his "commitment problems." I've heard this before from other women in similar situations, so let me clarify something: men don't have commitment problems.
Claiming that men have commitment problems implies that men have some kind of commitment obligation.
READ ALSO: Understanding virginity and the 5 types of virgins After the shackles of virginity were lifted off my shoulders, I noticed that I myself detested virgins (female virgins). James on the other hand is seeing the shy, and reserved Kemi who is a virgin. After sometimes, it comes up again, she agrees to try it but is scared. Follow him on Twitter: @kurtissmithblog, FB: https:// and IG: @kingkurtissmithblog The views expressed in this article are the author’s own and do not necessarily represent the editorial policy of
I never wanted to date any virgin and just avoided them by all means (dated a few back then but that was after love trapped me..lol). We (especially girls) need to understand that men are visual in nature not emotional. The earlier women accept this the easier time they will have understanding men. I liked her but being the man that disvirgined a girl I hardly felt anything for scared the hell out of me. welcomes writers, bloggers, photographers and all sorts of “noise makers” to become a part of our Bloggers network.
She's like "awwwww, that's so sweet of you Kelvin".
To cut the long story short, it took me over 6 years after my first inquest into sex to loose my virginity. I think it was fate that made me keep that 'idiot' for so long. They both bring their external experiences together to make a mind blowing sexual adventure. He is the Chief Editor of with multitudinous articles on all things relationships, love, marriage, faith, career and you guessed it......I thought I was alone in this school of thought until I found out from many virgins that most guys run at the sound of the word "virginity". They are attracted to girls with nice asses not nice personalities (at least at the beginning of a relationship, of course, we care about personality but I'm talking about initial attraction here). When his sexual genes begin to take effect, his eyes begin to wonder and his hands begin to feel some soft God made portions of her body, no one will tell Kelvin that although this cake is sweet, icing will make it perfect. If you are a seasoned writer or a complete newbie – apply and become Nigeria’s next star blogger.Now that's our of the way, let's discuss the 7 reasons guys detest virgins:1. He begins to ask her for icing, she reminds him of his earlier "I don't care if you are virgin" stand. Three things would happen; she gives in and loses the virginity to him, she doesn't give in and he cheats on her to get the icing from somewhere else or they break up. Guys think this far and ask themselves, "why the stress? Super glue nature: A few years back, a friend of mine.3. Send us some info about your career, interests and expertise and why you’d like to contribute to the Blogger Network at [email protected] Also, please send us the link to your blog and three examples of your work.That is a metaphor for the women I like, because what I like is the only thing that matters in the known universe.On the other hand, are you understanding my word stuff?The “innocent” style is put together, and like I wrote, I like to take things apart, like clothes or self-esteem.