If the person on the other end drops the ball or doesn't respond, feel good that you didn't waste any more time on someone who either isn't available or prefers to play games.
As long as you don't pursue someone so much that you're not allowing the other person to reciprocate and occasionally pursue you, it's often a turn-on when someone sees your excitement and interest.
Fear sells, of course, but instructing people to, "Never do this or you'll ruin everything!
" isn’t usually helpful when trying to build authentic relationships.
" message can be effective in getting the ball rolling.Do not have sex "too soon" if (1) you know it will bring out the worst in you, (2) you want to wait for religious, cultural, or moral reasons, e.g., (3) you know that having sex before you're in a relationship will make you uncomfortable.But, if you're waiting because you think a guy will run, think again.It's not mutually exclusive to be confident and kind.The other issue with this “Men Love B-tches” rule is that it's encouraging us to play childish games and disrespect each other.When we're little, our parents share clear-cut rules: Don't talk to strangers, no playtime until the work is done, and eat everything on your plate.