She’s surprised by how well he manages to make her laugh, without overstepping boundaries.
If they could work off this strength alone, she’d be able to feel she can let him in closer, on her own terms… It’s not just in everyday life where he comes off the more “fun” one (rare to say for Cancer – but they are the one sign that can make Gemini come off overly defensive with the air of something to lose); in their social life together, he can come off like the charming Eddy in front of their mutual friends, and she may feel like her fun side is firmly left in his shade.
It’s not just in everyday life where she comes off the more “fun” one either; in their social life together with friends and strangers alike, she can really have her way with people to the extreme of making him feel like he’s in her shadow.
Mercury only rules Gemini by day, so if you are dating a Gemini born by night or a Cancer with a less influential Moon in his birth chart, the energy throughout their chart can be spread very differently to what’s typically written about either of these signs in love.
Figure out the rest of your ten planets if you’re having big differences and misunderstandings with your Gemini or Cancer from there.
He’s surprised by how well she manages to make him laugh, without overstepping boundaries.
If they could work off this strength alone, he’d be able to feel he can let her closer on his terms… Men rarely ever cope well with being outdone in the “fun” stakes, do they?
.) Added to that: Gemini seeks routine in the 6th House where Cancer is at her most creative in the 5th.