No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active.
Young guys have a stronger sex drive and are naturally hungrier for a woman’s body.
In most cases, it involves a commitment to an exclusive relationship with the other person to make this decision.
Some couples will introduce each other to the important people in their life: parents, family, friends, mentors, spiritual community, etc. Some couples will try living together (the pros and cons of doing this are an entirely different blog post, and we are looking for someone to write intelligently about this so if you are interested in doing this, please let us know).
You’re not trying to scope out the other person to see if they are marriage material. And friends spend time with each other to have fun.
As a result of that increased romantic passion and sexual connection, the two people are actually more likely to develop strong feelings for each other and to feel very attached to each other – something they never planned for, but also something that happens quite often and is so far beyond their control. (Friends and family, if you could use these categories to identify your dating life then I will not have to ask awkward follow-up questions). If she doesn’t reply to your text, you don’t get upset. Sure, you can have fun, but the relationship has another purpose as well. So for my own sake (and the sake of other nosy people like myself), I’ve developed 4 categories of dating to help clarify things and lessen the confusion surrounding dating. Dating to See Goal: Knowledge This type of dating is more intentional.Now that you have made a lifelong commitment to another person, you will have to nurture and grow that relationship (a satisfying marriage unfortunately doesn’t just happen naturally, which I believe is one of the biggest misconceptions about marriage).Dating after marriage is very important because it gives you exclusive time with your wife (which might not happen during the rest of the week).That relationship between a younger guy and an older woman is likely to be supercharged by a combination of the younger man’s peak sex drive and the older woman’s confidence, experience and her own sex drive.