With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.
First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating.
Men are slower to commit and many also need their ego “stroked”.
They like having women contacting them…even if they are rejecting all of them as it makes them feel desirable.
I wish these readers had written me beforehand because this is often the worst approach to take (at least from this guy’s point-of-view). I do have some advice but let’s first look at one reader’s email and user this as an example for better understanding where you stand with your guy: I have been dating a man I met on for about 6 weeks – we go out regularly and he is always quick to make plans with me.
We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.
He’s saying that since the people who are contacting him put in the effort to contact him, he should respond to them.
When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.I even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up.Etymology of the Word "God" Discusses the root-meaning of the name "God", which is derived from Gothic and Sanskrit roots.Existence of God Formal dogmatic Atheism is self-refuting, and has never won the reasoned assent of any considerable number of men.If this sounds like your situation, you’re not alone.