My boyfriends on dating websites

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If you phrase it like he has a special talent or ability, he’ll want to express that side of himself with you.

I’ve always known that he’s not the romantic type but in the beginning of the relationship, he always used to say sweet things at unexpected times to give me butterflies, he used to take me out to romantic dinners, etc.The best that we can do is to be as perceptive as we can be and do what we can to let the other person know how we feel.Sounds easy when I say it like that, but it takes constant vigilance to truly “see” other people and not project our own image of them over who they actually are. It sounds like you have a great relationship and that he probably would be happy to please you if he understood your experience and knew what you needed him to do.I feel like he’s just not putting as much of an effort anymore into being romantic.I feel like he’s so comfortable with me (which I obviously like), but once in a while it would be nice to feel like he still is trying to reel me in.When I work with guys, I put it to them like this: There is no such thing as her “just knowing” how you feel or that it “should be obvious”.

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