Of course neither of us told anyone, and we're now great friends as well as neighbors." Adult Swingers, or people in the Life Style don't often talk about their Life Style to others.
All seem to be very aware of the unwritten rules of privacy.
While most swinging is about two couples sharing fun and swapping partners, many swingers regularly participate in threesomes.
Only a few years ago, before the Internet era, swingers were essentially a secret society, meeting each other through dating magazines purchased at adult bookstores.
Because of that, it was difficult to even guess at how many swingers there were.
Whether you're looking for something voyeuristic or a full-blown orgy, you can find it online. Whether it's same room sex, a threesome or even an orgy, many sexual activities are included.
At a minimum these studies indicate that a lot of people are receptive to the idea of swinging. As knowledge and freedom expand, so will the numbers that participate.
In the past it was quite difficult and time consuming to meet like-minded people using the magazines gleaned from the adult bookstores and that made it easy to give up.