First dates are often boring, awkward, unexciting, and even torturous to many men.
Guys build up the occasion in their mind for days or weeks beforehand, only to be severely let down after the fact.
Knowing that this behavior is normal, does not really reassure very much. Imagine only positive situations by playing funny or romantic scenes in your head and allow your mental cinema to only come up with a happy ending.
Then tell her that she has to be the one to choose the next date, AGAIN, and this is very important, you must say this in a playful manner.Follow their steps, and your next first date will go great! Posturing some “better” version of whom you’d like to present is misleading to your date and sets the wrong tone for future interactions.It’s a game that can’t be maintained and guarantees dissatisfaction for both parties.Women want to be with a guy who has a sense of certainty in what he does and in what choices he makes.If it becomes apparent that she is not impressed with your choice of venue, smile confidently and say to her: “This is not your kind of place, is it?For some it brings a kind of shy rigidity which means that they melt in fear, while others are too busy pondering: what should I wear? What should we talk about and what happens if I 'm not what the other person expects from me?