You could also play a game where, for every point scored, the person who earned the point gets to ask a question.Just be sure to choose a game you're sure to win or tie, or you may find yourself doing all the talking.Unless you've both decided to have a formal session of getting to know each other by asking any questions that have been on your mind, keep things low-key.Let the questions follow each other naturally as the conversation unfolds.What is your favorite food to bring to bed - strawberries, chocolate, whip cream? Favorite body part to be massaged What clothes on me turn you on? Name a sexual regret that you have from your youth.
Apart from the most obvious one, which other two areas of your body are the most sensitive and responsive? If you won the lottery, what are the first three things you would do and which are the five things you’ve been most longing for, that you would buy?
Sometimes the questions may or may not have anything to do with your relationship, but they may still provide valuable insights into your partner’s psyche and personality.
It can be a fun way to discover more about each other.
(If the other hasn’t seen it, narrate in detail.)Which fruit/vegetable do you think I resemble and why? The one argument your parents had, that you would try and avoid with your partner, would be over…Which is your favourite asset/body part on a man/woman and why?
Can you remember your earliest childhood memory of happiness and that of fear? What are the qualities that draw you to people that you can base a friendship on? The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you was…Your most wicked fantasy has got to be… Your favourite song of all times and why – is it because of the lyrics, because of the memories associated with it or just the whole package?
Can you give me a mock session of how you would discuss sex education when you have a child? Your first date – where did you go, what did you do and how long did the relationship last? (Be open to this one, if you react adversely, he/she will never feel free to confide in you again.)If our relationship doesn’t work out, do you think we can remain friends? If somebody handed you a magic lamp and gave you three wishes, what would they be?