In 2004 I was in Swaziland to photograph Coral Stevens handweaving and had the wonderful opportunity to see the Reed Dance or "Umhlanga" which takes place in the spring every year.Young childless unmarried maidens from all over the Kingdom cut reeds with long knives and then gather and present them to the Queen Mother and dance, colourfully dressed and bare breasted.Pero sobre todo las personas necesitadas: - Todas las personas que no tienen acceso al crédito en un banco. - Gente CDD,, contratos temporales subvencionados todos ... - Las personas en necesidad financiera para organizar su bodas o celebraciones.- Surendettements, pegado Banco de Francia (FICP) y el mundo.The ceremony lasts eight days with the King only attending the last day's ceremony.The girls wear coloured tassels and woollen streamers denoting whether they are betrothed or not.They probably had an “arranged marriage.” When the man has more than one wife, it makes him polygamous. Furthermore, he gives the foreign wife excuses as to why he could not defy his mother. Suddenly, the foreign wife becomes distraught when she learns of her husband’s other marriage.Often these Pakistani men never take the foreign wives to Pakistan to meet their families, relatives, or friends. Although the reason is cultural, he may say it’s Islam. It doesn’t matter if it was an arranged marriage or otherwise. She’s has made a life with this man and is already emotionally invested. It’s extremely difficult and painful for her, as she struggles to figure out what to do.
More often than not, the Pakistani man will or may have already married his first cousin who is still in Pakistan.
For instance, she should keep her funds separate from his or have a prenuptial agreement. I’m not saying that every Pakistani man is as I described above.
Most importantly, she should act using intellect and not emotions. However, there are many who have done all that I have mentioned.
A Foreign woman who marries a Pakistani man may find herself spun in a web of deception.
Many of the women marry these men without knowing the truth.
Although most of the women don’t know that the Pakistani man uses those qualities to trap them.